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Welcome to the Cat and Moose podcast.
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I'm Kat and I'm Moose.
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This is a true life podcast where we explore the quirks of being human.
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I put my makeup on today, yeah you did, I took a shower.
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I took a shower, I put my makeup on.
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I'm so proud of you, thank you.
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And then I walked, belle, belle, and it was really windy outside and the wind blew in my eyes and blew on mascara all in my eyes and made all my makeup go down my face and like Alice Cooper, and so now it's like I look like I've been in a domestic dispute.
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That's how I felt this morning.
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We went to get a phlebotomy and phlebotomized.
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Wait, what Did you get?
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your phlebotomy that's what I thought she said too is phlebotomy I got blood drawn and when I showed them my arms for them to evaluate the veins, I just saw an array of bruises.
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And I was like my goodness, Sarah, From your heroin problem.
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Just not knocks and bonks.
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They were like are you safe at home?
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And she's like no, I'm actually not safe, I have too many animals to be safe at home.
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I am far too clumsy to be safe at home.
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I actually run a zoo from the inside of my home.
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That is true.
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Oh, my God.
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Okay, are you guys ready to start?
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I could tell that I'm going to be a bit giggly just because I'm losing my mind.
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Yeah.
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In life Paw dooser, Sarah oh.
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No, I don't know how to spell Paw dooser.
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I was like well, it is a podcast.
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I'm the paw dooser, paw dooser, sarah.
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Hey paw dooser, what's up, paw?
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I think paw is what the Chinese would call the season of metal, the metal season.
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The fall, I think, Is paw Is that good, I mean it just is.
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What it is.
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It just is what if we gave our listeners just a completely unedited podcast today?
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We just were like this is it?
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We have done that before and I don't think they liked it.
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We've done that before and we got actually some pretty negative feedback.
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Yeah, they were like don't ever do that again.
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You guys are really lazy.
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That's what happened.
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You guys are lazy.
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I hate the word lazy.
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Do you guys hate the word lazy?
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I do too.
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I do too, and I do not appreciate being called that word because I am not a lazy person.
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You're not.
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Who called you that?
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I just did.
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Oh Well, that wasn't nice.
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Sorry, hey Kat, hey Moose.
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Hi guys, merry Christmas everybody.
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Happy holidays, merry.
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Christmas and happy holidays Merry Katmas and Merry Serimus, and Merry Christmast and Merry Moosmas, happy Hanukkah and to all of the other holidays that we celebrate Indeed.
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So you guys know that we're having a slumber party tomorrow night at my house.
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We are, I do know.
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I just want you to know that I remade all of the beds in my house this week Great.
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And the two beds one in each guest bedroom that normally just have like white kind of very generic sheets on them, both have Christmas sheets on them, and the one in the big guest bedroom has little blue and gray snowflakes.
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It's real pretty.
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And the bed in the other guest bedroom has got a bunch of Moose and Christmas trees on it.
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You're trying to woo me into that room, aren't you?
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I'm trying to woo you into that bed.
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You couldn't find any producer Sarah's sheets.
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I couldn't it was really tough.
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That's weird.
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Oh my God, just little microphones all over them.
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Yeah, I thought maybe you could be represented by the Christmas tree this year, Sarah.
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I accept.
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I love trees.
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Yes, exactly, I love Christmas trees too.
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There you go.
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It says, if it was planned.
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Well, speaking of that, guys, we got an email about the wassel.
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Hey, I would like some cheering for an email, A wassel wassel email.
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You can email us too at hello at catmoosepodcastcom.
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Okay, so the subject of this is wassel, baby, wassel, baby, wassel, baby wassel, oh I like it already.
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I love our listeners so much.
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I know I did too.
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You're as weird as we are Okay.
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And so, megan, thanks for writing in.
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Hey Megan, hey Megan.
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Megan says hi guys.
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So my family always makes wassel at Christmas time.
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However, I never knew the meaning behind it.
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So thanks for being the wassel education podcast.
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She knows us, she does my Pentecostal great aunt Shirley.
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I mean, who doesn't have a great aunt Shirley?
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Shirley, we do.
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Wait, a Pentecostal.
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I mean, yeah, I can't even say it.
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Okay, so great.
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Aunt Shirley made it one year when I was a little kid and we've been having it since.
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As a kid I hated it, but as an adult we add a few extra ingredients, wink, wink to take the edge off the holidays.
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I like it now.
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I really like it now.
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Oh, I also want to add that the version we make is probably not traditional.
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It's more like the redneck version.
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We put red hot candies in ours.
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Oh, cat, it sounds like your neck of the woods.
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Yeah, totally Mary.
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Whatever means the most to you, megan, thanks, megan.
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I love that.
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Instead of Merry Christmas, mary, whatever means the most to you, cheers to that.
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It's beautiful, I love it.
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Everyone raise your drinks, please, and very quickly go around and say what you're drinking, cat you first I am drinking La Crema, russian River, chardonnay.
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Okay, lagunitas Daytime.
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It's a crisp session IPA.
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Unsweetened iced tea Nice.
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Great work everyone.
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Good work everybody.
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Cheers to you Megan, cheers Megan, cheers Megan.
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We are raising our wassal to you.
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It's not what you think it means.
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Miss, I have to tell you we talked I think it was on our last episode or maybe the episode before that about our favorite Christmas songs.
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Yes, and one of yours if not your top favorite was Slay Ride.
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Oh yes, oh yes, da-da-da-da-da-da-da.
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Ever since we recorded that podcast, I have found myself walking around the house whistling like this Da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da, I love that, like octave, da-da-da-da-da-da-da, and I can't ever hit it.
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And it just has stayed in my head.
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It's like I'll find myself like loading the dishwasher and I'm like whistling that was great.
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It's very joyful it is.
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It's lovely, that is so cute.
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The best part of that is anytime that you yell loud or you whistle like that.
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We actually can't hear anything you're doing, oh good.
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So Sarah and I just laugh and dance along, but it's not making fun of you, it's just we know when we hear it back that we're going to really have jammed to it.
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Oh yeah, the good news is we all have imaginations and I knew exactly what tune you were singing.
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Indeed.
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Oh good, I'm so glad you have imaginations.
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Imagination.
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Okay, so I have this book.
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It's called by Sarah Jane Case.
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It's an Enneagram book and it's called the honest Enneagram, and some people may know Sarah Jane Case.
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She goes by her name on Instagram now, but she used to go by Enneagram and coffee.
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Did you ever see like some of her posts?
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Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
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It kind of reminds me a little bit of like Sanctuary World, the horoscope Instagram thing, where it's like they'll have like a little pie and they'll be like if you're a Scorpio, then 80% of you is this and 20% of you is this.
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Oh really, I always liked that about?
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yeah, and I always liked that about Sarah Jane.
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Is that her?
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name yeah, Sarah Jane.
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Yeah, I always liked that about her posts is I'm like oh, I can read a little bit about each number and it was like in a digestible format.
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I like that.
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That's so cool.
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She I had the honor of being an Enneagram training with her in Nashville in one of my classes and she how do I say?
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She led with Enneagram seven and I remember her talking about the dark sides of being a seven and it was just really interesting because you'd never hear that.
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But what I wanted to say.
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So this book it's called the honest Enneagram highly recommend it.
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I have been going through it recently and I we're not going to go deep, don't worry, we're going to stay really, really shallow, just like we like it.
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Oh, thank goodness.
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Yeah, but I want to ask each of you if you resonate with something.
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And then I have something very irreverent to do with the Enneagram.
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Okay, you are a type two.
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You lead with two, often called the giver, the lover, the helper, the hidden warrior.
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I never knew that that feels right in line I would agree with that, and this is the symbol, it's you holding a lotus, your hands holding a lotus.
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Very cool, very beautiful, that's a cool tattoo.
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It's very sweet.
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I should buy some of these and we should just give them away to listeners, or we should buy them with all of our money.
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Okay.
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The quote is I often believe that I am as worthy as I am lovable, that my worth is related to how wanted I am.
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So is the question?
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Does that resonate with me, or what is the question?
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Yeah, did your soul write that yeah?
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No.
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Oh.
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Actually, I think that that is not true.
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My current day ego layered version of my soul does not resonate with that.
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I think that would you read it one more time, from beginning to end.
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Yeah, of course, okay.
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I often believe that I am as worthy as I am lovable, that my worth is related to how wanted I am.
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Hmm.
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Yeah, that does actually resonate.
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I think that I was hearing it from a different perspective the first time around.
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I think that a lot of times I don't feel worthy because I don't feel lovable.
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I think that that is actually true.
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I think in my healthiest state of being I would be like I am lovable and I am worthy and all of that.
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I'm not in a super healthy state of mind then I don't believe I'm lovable or worthy, but that would still make the statement true you think you are as lovable as you are worthy, or you are as worthy as you are lovable?
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Yeah, I think that that is actually a fairly accurate statement.
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Well, I read these and I think the important thing to always note with any gram type is there's no negatives here.
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No type is better than one another.
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But also, when you find your any gram type, you feel you're most vulnerable because you're like ugh, it's like someone found that little red flag that is always freaking out when something goes wrong.
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Whatever it's like, you have attachment issues, whatever it is.
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We all have different kinds of ways we've survived, yeah.
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I remember feeling like when I figured that, when I found my any gram number, feeling like somebody crawled into my brain and saw through my lens of life.
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Yeah, which is pretty cool because, if you think about it, if people study an e-gram, they can go.
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Oh, before I call Kat and need to have this conversation, let me think about how it might feel the way I'm going to present it.
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Yeah, it helps us get in other people's brains.
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Yeah, that's cool.
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All right, sarah, you are loyal, a skeptic, a guardian and a trusted integrator.
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What's my any gram number?
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You're a type six, and here's your sentence.
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I want you to say, if you resonate with, I know that I will be okay as long as I know what is expected of me, and make a point to follow through with those expectations.
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Wow, yeah.
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I've never heard it worded this way and I think she has worded it the best I've ever heard.
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That's great.
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Yeah, that's really, that's really astute.
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I like that.
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Yeah, you agree with that?
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I do.
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Yeah, I, I mean, that is my biggest.
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I Don't want to say form of anxiety, but maybe, like trigger for anxiety is when I, especially in a work situation or something like that, when I don't, or in a any type of relationship, when I don't know what's expected of me.
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Now, relationships are interesting because I don't think we should have expectations, and yet that's a topic because maybe that we should have expectations of each other.
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You know, yeah, that's a whole different thing.
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But especially in a work environment or in that kind of situation, I am like, if I don't know what's expected of me, I will.
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I will climb every tower and try to Accomplish it all, because I don't know where the mark is.
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Hmm, We've talked about this before that a common thing that we recognized in our own workings together was that any gram sixes have often said I didn't, but I didn't know.
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I didn't know that.
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Yeah, that refers to that wanting to know the expectation and have the knowledge in order to show up and do it All right and quickly.
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Mine leader, challenger, protector, defender of justice type eight I feel like I sound like a superhero.
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Yes, you are a superhero.
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Yeah.
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And then this one.
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I think it's hard to read your own, because I'm like is that really me?
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But I know that I will be okay as long as I remain strong and powerful, mmm.
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And and it's interesting because when I hear that outside of myself, when my ego hears that, like you said, cat, my ego says I'm not trying to be strong and powerful, which is true.
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But Even more I would take the opposite of that and say it's more important for me to not ever be weak, mm-hmm.
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And that's not for the sake of being weak, it's for the sake of that's.
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When all the shit falls apart, you know what I mean.
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Like I can't be ever be weak because I'll be vulnerable, like that's what it comes up to.
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All right.
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So if you've never listened to the podcast, now you know who we are.
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You have four minutes of goodness there and I'm welcome to the enneagram.
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We're not an enneagram podcast.
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No, we're not.
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We don't do this every week.
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What do we do?
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So I want to see Moose.
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If something resonant, well, you then.
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You were gonna do an irreverent enneagram thing.
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Should we go there?
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Well, I thought we could, just we could do something really funny, okay.
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So I saw a sign.
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I Don't understand me.
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I saw the sign and it's been up my eyes.
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I saw the sign.
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All right, I love.
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We're a karaoke podcast.
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All that she wants is another baby.
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I'm gone tomorrow, all right, so I need you both to yell out Whatever your answer is for this.
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If it and there's nine of them I Saw a sign for me and my house we serve, we will serve the Lord.
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We've seen that before.
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It's a, it's a Bible verse.
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Mm-hmm, mm-hmm.
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I would like for us to write one, and in honor of Sarah Jane, for each grini Any.
